I live to be submissive: Archive

“Although the sub has rested, and very often slept, even after several hours there can be spontaneous outbursts of emotion: which might be tears, irrationality, fear, or any number of things. What the Dominant must do here is recognise these for what they are; a need to be comforted, and looked after, to be held, told how much she is needed, and how important she is. Subs are, in many ways like children. They crave attention, and often the sub psyche feels that they have lost the massive attention which they had before from their Dom/me, and this can cause the unease, and charged emotions that we see in a sub drop situation. Allied to this of course, are the hugely elevated amounts of naturally produced drugs (endorphins, adrenaline etc) that are likely still flowing around the subs body: these may take some time to return to normal levels, and there may well be a withdrawal effect caused by these too. So sub is going through a mental and physical “cold turkey”. The total effect of all this can seem to create a totally irrational person; she cries for no reason, you hold her and she pushes you away, you leave her alone and she wants to be held. Well, such is the lot of the Dom/me who is in at least part responsible for getting the sub to this state anyway. We must persevere, and accept that irrationality, and look past it. After care is vital, making the sub feel wanted, safe, secure, and comfortable.” —

A piece of writing about subdrop. I get this all the time D: -Bunny (via daddyslittlebunny)

Subdrop, the only thing worse than to guilt. Aftercare is more important than any other party of play. Ignore it at your peel and your plaything’s; it can mean the difference between broken but happy and broken and shattered.

It’s your responsibility and no one can do it for you.

(via necrospermia)

Mar 31, 2012169 notes

Hi there. I decided to be cute today.

redo-phila: